To merry to a foreigner- what are the reasons of this occurrence?
Tens of thousands of Russian women have found their life partners beyond the bounds of our country for last 10 years. Why do many Russian women want to merry to a foreigner? Most women begin to look for husbands abroad when they finely understand that it is impossible for them to build normal family in Russia.
Historically happened that there are fewer men then women in Russia. Russian man is used the fact that he is the value in oneself despite his mind, education, job, social status, financial position and so on. The most important that he was born as a man. And this man doesn’t need to try to achieve something in his life to build a family because there are a lot of women who want to merry to him. Many generations of Russian men grew up in families without fathers. When they become adults and fathers, it is normal for them not to take care of their children.
The society of our country doesn’t censure, and no law can make them take care of their families. In addition, drunkenness and they do not want to work. And in sum it is not cheerful situation. And because of this situation all women of Russia are dependent. Practically, they have no choice because there aren’t normal men here to start a family. Of course, not all Russian men are so indifferent. I am sure there are some worthy men in Russia, but there are few worthy men here, so it is useless to hope that you can meet this man.
When Russia became open, we got information about people’s life abroad, and it is found out that there are countries with another system of values and opinions on the family. We got an opportunity to compare, and the advantage is not on the side of Russian men.
But there are a lot of well-bred, intelligent and attractive women in Russia. That is why it is very difficult to build a family in Russia. Russian women are ready to move and look for their happiness abroad. They are ready to be wives, mothers and hostesses, create comfort, take care of their children, love their husbands. They don’t want to put up with present situation. To accept the situation that exists in Russia it means to break your life, destiny and your children’s life. The world is open now and there are a lot of opportunities to change your life. You should use these opportunities to bring up children in healthy and successful society.
Most Russian women went abroad, found their destiny and now they live happily with husbands-foreigners. There are a lot of examples of these cases among our friends and relatives. And it proves that can find your man who needs you without fall.
That is why I want to merry to a foreigner too. If I get into new culture and language surroundings, I will try to settle down in a new country, get acquainted with culture and customs. Many Russian people live abroad, but I will try to become native in the surroundings of indigenes. I hope my English will help me to adapt. And of course, I will try to find not well - paid but very interesting job. Work and collective allow have a good circle of communication, it is very important for a foreigner. I hope my future husband will agree with me. I will try a new country to become for me my second native land.